The Pull and The Push... :)

I don't know if its just me or others also feel some kind of pull in this universe. It can be just fabrication of my mind but there are instances in life where we just like some person without any reason and sometimes we dislike somebody without any reason. There is a pull which make us go to them even when we don't want to. There are instances when you you don't want that person to be somewhere and you have never found that person ever at that place earlier but then at the moment when you really don't want that person to be there you will find him/her there. I was watching this series on discovery channel where two long lost twin sisters met after 25 years when one sister by mistake dialed a wrong number to other sister's house and somehow they discovered that they are long lost sisters ( dont ask me how but it was shown on Discovery channel series based on true stories) but we may call this destiny also. This pull bring two people together who may not suit each other in the long run or some time this pull may bring two people who are made for each other. But is there only a pull which  bring people together or is there a push also which takes people far from each other? like take an example where you are searching for some person and mising them just by minutes or suppose sometimes in critical situation your phone battery is always down or when suppose you want to speak to someone desperately and you never can because of some or the other reason. I am not talking about misunderstandings but just the circumstances where in normal scenario everything can go right but somehow it doesn't because of the push. People come in your life and go, you notice absence of some and some you dont.

Now lets analyse this pull, if i go to somebody who is not a believer he will say that its nothing but coincidence that may be you were at the right place at the right moment or at the wrong place at the wrong moment but to this i may say that there were other people at that place also but why me? so my answer to that would be the pull. Now how does this pull come into picture? it may be due to our karma's, may be past karma's or the present karma's. May be because of the past karma's you are pulled to that person and based on present karmas you may continue or discontinue the association. But this is conscious decision where we decide that we dont want to be associated together anymore. but there are times where you want to but somehow the circumstances does'nt help. Like say the case in movie Serendipity.  

But how to handle this pull and push? can we change the outcome of this pull or push? there is a saying that "when something has to go wrong it will go wrong "... so why to worry about the pull or push just live in the moment and enjoy life.. may be what pull bring you together today can again bring you together later .. or may be everything is in this mind only... the only thing is to change the perspective and may be the pull become push and the push can become the pull. Anyhow from every push you learn something and from every pull you gain something....

Like a Bird

Why can't we live like animals or birds? Have anybody ever thought why being human is so difficult why we make such an issue about being human? Why we have to say to a kid who is playing in soil and getting all dirty and enjoying himself that stop it and behave like a good kid. But he is just doing what he enjoys. We make rules and tell that is good and this is bad. Why cant we just leave all the rules behind and just do whatever we enjoy.

This society has made so many rules, so many customs so many wrong and rights. Humans are supposed to do this and not do that, have anybody ever thought if we just lived like animals without going after money or status or fame how the world would be? I am not saying that you be like an animal but why cant we just follow our instinct and do whatever give us happiness and to hell with what others say. Who gives other any right to decide what is right for the other person as they can never know what is going on in other person’s mind and heart. Can you ever know another person completely? I don’t think so, even if you are soul mates you cant know other persons thoughts. Everybody is born different and unique.

I know we should be thankful that we are born in human body and have a gift of conscience but i guess we humans have totally misused this gift. We have used this gift to go on rat race to be the most beautiful, strongest, richest, most famous etc. But what if we were all equal. But now thinking over it i think if we all were equal life would have become really boring. It gives you a kick that you are running faster than everybody else and you are the most beautiful woman in the room. But here also there are people who will say i am being vain but that's just my point, why do you want to judge people. Let them be what they want and you be what you want to. Sometimes its a vicious circle the people who cant do what they want to do will be jealous of the people who are really doing what they want to and then will judge people who are enjoying whatever they are doing. So basically everything emerge from dissatisfaction inside oneself. The person who is not happy inside will always judge other people and the person who is happy inside will be happy seeing other person happy. So the way to be peaceful with the world around you is to be happy and a way to be happy is to follow your heart and instinct and go wherever it takes you.