The Pull and The Push... :)

I don't know if its just me or others also feel some kind of pull in this universe. It can be just fabrication of my mind but there are instances in life where we just like some person without any reason and sometimes we dislike somebody without any reason. There is a pull which make us go to them even when we don't want to. There are instances when you you don't want that person to be somewhere and you have never found that person ever at that place earlier but then at the moment when you really don't want that person to be there you will find him/her there. I was watching this series on discovery channel where two long lost twin sisters met after 25 years when one sister by mistake dialed a wrong number to other sister's house and somehow they discovered that they are long lost sisters ( dont ask me how but it was shown on Discovery channel series based on true stories) but we may call this destiny also. This pull bring two people together who may not suit each other in the long run or some time this pull may bring two people who are made for each other. But is there only a pull which  bring people together or is there a push also which takes people far from each other? like take an example where you are searching for some person and mising them just by minutes or suppose sometimes in critical situation your phone battery is always down or when suppose you want to speak to someone desperately and you never can because of some or the other reason. I am not talking about misunderstandings but just the circumstances where in normal scenario everything can go right but somehow it doesn't because of the push. People come in your life and go, you notice absence of some and some you dont.

Now lets analyse this pull, if i go to somebody who is not a believer he will say that its nothing but coincidence that may be you were at the right place at the right moment or at the wrong place at the wrong moment but to this i may say that there were other people at that place also but why me? so my answer to that would be the pull. Now how does this pull come into picture? it may be due to our karma's, may be past karma's or the present karma's. May be because of the past karma's you are pulled to that person and based on present karmas you may continue or discontinue the association. But this is conscious decision where we decide that we dont want to be associated together anymore. but there are times where you want to but somehow the circumstances does'nt help. Like say the case in movie Serendipity.  

But how to handle this pull and push? can we change the outcome of this pull or push? there is a saying that "when something has to go wrong it will go wrong "... so why to worry about the pull or push just live in the moment and enjoy life.. may be what pull bring you together today can again bring you together later .. or may be everything is in this mind only... the only thing is to change the perspective and may be the pull become push and the push can become the pull. Anyhow from every push you learn something and from every pull you gain something....